New member Username: Div_706Post Number: 3 Registered: Dec-06 | is there? its been driving me crazy. i mean im not like obsessed , i dont think about her all the time , its not like that but , its just confusing me.I would really like to get to know her better. i dont see how i came to these two very different conclusions part of me thinks this girl i like , likes me back, then another part of me thinks she knows i like her , and is creeped out by it(of course the third being most likely she probably doesn't notice me at all i mean, by no means are we good friends , we are in class together and cross paths sometimes in between classes. Last semester she talked to me a bit , would say hi and how are you. sometimes at the end of the year she tried to make small talk or start talking to me ,which i messed up cause i dont talk alot so i didn't know what to say. anyways , also what made me think she may like me was at our concert ( we are in band/orchestra) she asked if she could sit next to me , cause usually someone is between us, and maybe some other stuff happened. but lately i get a feeling she may know i like her and just is creeped out. i dont know why its just this feeling.I dont see a big reason why she would , i dont like follow her or stare at her , im not like that at all, heck its hard enough to just talk to her anymore. we have not talked much this semester .i wish i could just start saying small things even, just hey how are you more often, but it feels awkward. i dont know , maybe she acts different , cause whenever i think i let on that i like her, i have to try and act not interested in her.... please i need some others opinions , i know none of you could know whether she likes me or not, but i need some input on this. im sick of contemplating whether she likes me or thinks im just a creep, im getting no where. thanks for reading , sorry if its long <img> |
Gold Member Username: Big_edge_headMilwaukee, WI Post Number: 3433 Registered: Mar-07 | I think you should just talk to her. Just start saying hi and if you're both in band or whatever it seems you got at least one thing in common. Start talking to her about that. |
Platinum Member Username: WingmanaliveA pic is worth 1000 posts!! Post Number: 19791 Registered: Jun-06 | Take the plunge and do what you're afraid of. If I learned anything in life about women (or life itself) is that you gain NOTHING by sitting on your desires. The longer you wait the more you stand a chance of watching someone else snatching up your dream. I let MANY women in my past walk on by without letting them know how I felt. All I have left of them is regret. This girl could wind up being the love of your life or simply a speed bump onto something better. Your battle is determining how much it means to you to find out. Life will deal you wins and losses, ultimately you come out a winner if you can say to yourself that you have no regrets about it. |
Gold Member Username: Big_edge_headMilwaukee, WI Post Number: 3435 Registered: Mar-07 | Your advice is always great, Paul. Your wisdom really makes me think. |
Gold Member Username: Snowball123West Allis, WI Post Number: 2147 Registered: Oct-07 | listening to girl tips from Steve. hahah. JK man. |
Silver Member Username: Armykyle1Ms Us Post Number: 362 Registered: Dec-08 | Girls for the most part likes guys that are confident. Not cocky. You need to talk to her man. You'll never be happy if you don't go after what you want. You gotta put urself in the game man. |
Gold Member Username: Van_manBoston South, MA Post Number: 4612 Registered: Mar-06 | "This girl could wind up being the love of your life or simply a speed bump onto something better." Ya, she may have a hot sister thats easy to "speed bump" Ask her If you can call her to talk about something...Then ask her whats she wearing and breath heavy a lot when she talks. and is this some kind of spam thing, cause that img link has some sort of referral thing attached to it. "Referral.friendplay.com" |
Platinum Member Username: WingmanaliveA pic is worth 1000 posts!! Post Number: 19794 Registered: Jun-06 | And if she rejects you just politely ask to see her B(.)(.)BS. |
Gold Member Username: Nd4spd18Philadelphia, PA Post Number: 9713 Registered: Jul-06 | 3 posts and holy hell did you pick the wrong froum for this. lol |
Platinum Member Username: WingmanaliveA pic is worth 1000 posts!! Post Number: 19795 Registered: Jun-06 | Well the fact that he hasn't responded back yet tells me.........I don't know lol. Could be a spammer. Who knows? |
Gold Member Username: Van_manBoston South, MA Post Number: 4615 Registered: Mar-06 | yes its spam. That link he posted is a referal thing.. Look at the bottom of the OP left corner. Spam. |