Booo relationships...
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Gold Member Username: MgbcsLincoln, Nebraska Post Number: 1145 Registered: Dec-06 | Well, apparently me and my GF of 2 years are going on a "break." This really sucks. She has sh*t she has to work on (which I told her), and I don't know what to do with myself. I haven't been without a GF for so long that it's weird. I don't know what I am able to do or not do. Like, I don't want to do something stupid because I think we'll end up back together, but I'm ???single???  |
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Silver Member Username: SplmonsterC-Town, OH USA Post Number: 926 Registered: May-06 | lol get wasted and go to tha t!tt!e bar  just messin man, if u really like/love her i wouldnt start dating around, cuz if she finds out then it is pretty much over |
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Gold Member Username: MgbcsLincoln, Nebraska Post Number: 1146 Registered: Dec-06 | Yeah I don't plan on it. Not yet. I'll give it another chance soon, but I don't know what to do in the mean time. |
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Gold Member Username: ShortysetniesRock Vegas, NC US Post Number: 1245 Registered: Mar-06 | been there done that and it sucks. First girl I ever loved had some things I didnt like about her (not petty sh!t either) and I told her she needed to decide if it was me or some other stuff and it took her so long to pick me that it made me realize she didnt feel the same for me as I did for her and I left her for good. All I got to say is don't go back to her because it's a routine, make sure you make the decision based on the actual relationship. We were together for 3 years going on 4 and I almost took her back because I was used to having her there but I realized I needed to move on. Good luck with everything man |
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Silver Member Username: SplmonsterC-Town, OH USA Post Number: 928 Registered: May-06 | lol keep busy with stuff juss keep ur mind off chicks lol |
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Gold Member Username: MgbcsLincoln, Nebraska Post Number: 1147 Registered: Dec-06 | Andrew - it's the exact same story here. It just sucks it took 2 years to realize there are things about her that I can't live with. We'll see if she is sincere in what she is. If she is, I will take her back because I care about her. If she can't change, I will have to move on. |
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Gold Member Username: WingmanaliveA pic is worth 1000 posts!! Post Number: 6133 Registered: Jun-06 | Been there. Feel for ya. Very old saying: If you love something, let it go. If it was meant to be, it will come back to you. All I can say is let the bird fly, if she comes back, you know. |
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Gold Member Username: MgbcsLincoln, Nebraska Post Number: 1148 Registered: Dec-06 | |
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Gold Member Username: BernymacCambodian Post Number: 2571 Registered: Sep-04 | I been without a girl since 2002 =). |
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Gold Member Username: MgbcsLincoln, Nebraska Post Number: 1149 Registered: Dec-06 | Well...I kinda like having one. It keeps me out of the trouble I don't want...but allows for plenty of mischief too. |
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Gold Member Username: ShortysetniesRock Vegas, NC US Post Number: 1248 Registered: Mar-06 | I've had a girl (3 different ones) since 2001 except for 4 months of that |
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Gold Member Username: MgbcsLincoln, Nebraska Post Number: 1151 Registered: Dec-06 | Damn dude...your 18! |
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Gold Member Username: WingmanaliveA pic is worth 1000 posts!! Post Number: 6136 Registered: Jun-06 | Young pups!! I could be your dad!! |
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Gold Member Username: MgbcsLincoln, Nebraska Post Number: 1152 Registered: Dec-06 | Creepy Paul... lol |
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Platinum Member Username: Project6Post Number: 13903 Registered: Dec-03 | You can brush up on your study of "Postwhorology"! |
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Gold Member Username: LklivesPost Number: 9258 Registered: Jan-06 | hell...go out and get laid!...get your self esteem back...lots of fish in the sea....if it didn't feel right for either you or her, then it isn't meant to be...if in doubt, throw the muttha out!...LOL hell I got divorced in 1979 after 2 sons and 4 years of marriage, and never remarried...I kept the kids and threw the witch out!...and I love it, being single!...there are plenty of women out there to be platonic friends or intimate with, whenever u need some female companionship..no need for a ball and chain with a girlfriend who needs 'space" or to "find herself" and then 5 years later turns out to be your worse nightmare!....women bleed monthly and it makes em all crazy as a loon!...LOL |
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Gold Member Username: Denali_on_22sHit you in the chest m... Post Number: 2251 Registered: Feb-06 | Damn. That's some bitter oats... ^^^^ |
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Gold Member Username: Basshead86FTW Post Number: 9933 Registered: Aug-05 | you have problems if you guys are taking a break. she may have someone else of interest. or you guys fight too much......in other words....breaks aren't kosher, someone wants to do something and not feel bad, or they don't know how to end a failing relationship. |
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Gold Member Username: AdddisorderWest palm, Florida Post Number: 4192 Registered: Jan-06 | a break is never a good thing. but on another note iv been with my girl for 2.5years and everythings been great, just hope it stays that way |
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Gold Member Username: WingmanaliveA pic is worth 1000 posts!! Post Number: 6144 Registered: Jun-06 | Wait till kids are involved at then you split. Whole other universe there. |
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Gold Member Username: Basshead86FTW Post Number: 9944 Registered: Aug-05 | ^^^^^i couldn't imagine.... |
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Gold Member Username: WingmanaliveA pic is worth 1000 posts!! Post Number: 6161 Registered: Jun-06 | ^^^You wouldn't want to. |
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Gold Member Username: Livin_loudF uck fuckid... Fi Audio Post Number: 1734 Registered: Jan-06 | "women bleed monthly and it makes em all crazy as a loon!" one of my favorite quotes from south park: "...I just don't trust anything that bleeds for a week and doesn't die." lmao |
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Gold Member Username: WingmanaliveA pic is worth 1000 posts!! Post Number: 6167 Registered: Jun-06 | ^^^^HAHAHAHAHAHAHA. I've heard that b4, but always applies. |
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Gold Member Username: MgbcsLincoln, Nebraska Post Number: 1189 Registered: Dec-06 | Yeah we fight too much. It was all good for a while, because we both put on our angel fronts and treated each other perfectly. Now the true people come out and it's not so peachy. I don't know. It was basically me telling her there were things that needed to change and her promising to do so because she loves me so much...so we'll see if that's the case or not. It's kinda sad...one day without the girl and I miss her alreadty   |
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Gold Member Username: Arande2Just a matte... Missouri Post Number: 2396 Registered: Dec-06 | Relationships FTOMG |
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Gold Member Username: RedlinerWilmington, Ma Post Number: 3754 Registered: Jun-05 | lol i just went through this earlier thi yr with my gf of 2.5 yrs where she went off to school and she just started partying all the time and didnt care so much about us and what not i told her that im done if it stays this way she didnt think i was serious and said fine and then she just kept on going her own way so i broke up with her and she came back and now everything's been fine and cant get any better. whatever happens happens but i dont want to go through that again its a rough time i feel for ya man |
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Gold Member Username: MgbcsLincoln, Nebraska Post Number: 1194 Registered: Dec-06 | ...and to think, we made it thru last school year with her in Nebraska and me in Minnesota. Now we're both in Nebraska and sh*t happens. Weird. |
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Gold Member Username: AdddisorderWest palm, Florida Post Number: 4198 Registered: Jan-06 | stay togather shes hot |
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Gold Member Username: MgbcsLincoln, Nebraska Post Number: 1200 Registered: Dec-06 | haha...she has tanned up and lost weight since that pic...you don't need to tell me |
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Gold Member Username: WingmanaliveA pic is worth 1000 posts!! Post Number: 6178 Registered: Jun-06 | Ben. Let me tell you. Looks fade with age, and how they do. My ex is smoking hot, just unfaithful. Her flaw, not mine. Me and my kids will suffer that flaw forever. Try and see past the looks and see what's inside. Do you trust her? |
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Gold Member Username: MgbcsLincoln, Nebraska Post Number: 1208 Registered: Dec-06 | Yeah I do. It's not a matter or trust with her. Other stuff. |
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Silver Member Username: Mash4kashLafayette, LA Post Number: 283 Registered: Feb-06 | Tell yall sumthin' never trust a b*tch cuz if u do you'll get hurt. If you don't its not go hurt as bad but if u got love fa her n she do u wrong its just go sting cut her loose if she do. I'm sho everybody here agree with me on "M.O.B" those of u who don't know what that mean its Money.Over.B*tches. |
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Gold Member Username: Matt12490California USA Post Number: 2309 Registered: May-05 | ITS FUCKED-IN BREAKUP SEASON. I felt what andrew said earlier on how his girl had things that she wouldn't change and when I read that the other day I felt exactly the same thing (after about a year of bein together) . And hey, today we broke up. Hope it was for the better and I hope I'm strong about this. |
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Gold Member Username: The_image_dynamicSan Diego Post Number: 1086 Registered: Dec-06 | I disagree with Paul here... life is too short to hump ugly girls that give you all that you need emotionally, looks is all that matters to me at this point. The main thing is: can you put up with a girl that has multiple issues and deal with all the bullshit that they present? Fuck yeah you can if she is so hot that she makes you forget about all of that when she is doggy-style on your bed and begging you to fuck her. Then... if all of the emotional issues become too much tell her to get the fuck out and yell NEXT!!! like I do. My girl can literally stop traffic and I am proud of that, and she fills a need for me. A carnal lust filled need. Issues are secondary and we aren't talking about marriage here.... marriage is for the weak. |
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Gold Member Username: WingmanaliveA pic is worth 1000 posts!! Post Number: 6183 Registered: Jun-06 | "If you wanna be happy for the rest of your life, never make a pretty woman you're wife, from my personal point of view, get an ugly girl to marry you!" Hey, carnal lust is a good thing, and I never said to shag only dogs. I was a "family" man who lost what he loved because my ex was superficial with looks, something that is not "family" material. If that's what you're looking for, that is. If not, shag away! |
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Gold Member Username: MgbcsLincoln, Nebraska Post Number: 1214 Registered: Dec-06 | Hell, I'm in college. It's not the end of the world either way. I love Brad's way of thinking right now, but I wanna get married some day. |
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Gold Member Username: LklivesPost Number: 9284 Registered: Jan-06 | With age comes wisdom and experience...Paul is the ONLY one here who tells it the way it is... BTW...beauty is ONLY in the eyes of the beholder..we all can say we had "lookers" for wives or GF, but that doesn't mean shi*t...and we all might see each others "honeys' and say "what a dog"...we all have different standards as far as physical superficial appearances...and they all start looking haggard as they age, and most become bi*tches quickly...I personally like em 10 years younger than me (45) divorced, independent, financially and mentally stable, and just want a good time and enjoy life with no strings...only good thing about MARRIAGE and/or a committed relationship is children..then its all downhill! ...and courts fukc over men BIG TIME!...but the kids pay the price in spades.. BTW...I was head of the "Concerned Fathers" group and spoke many times nationally on this matter on national TV... Hard Copy , USA Today, Good Morning America, Congressional hearings, etc... |
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Gold Member Username: WingmanaliveA pic is worth 1000 posts!! Post Number: 6202 Registered: Jun-06 | ^^^Sounds like you learned from the school of hard knocks, like me. Sink or swim, nobody's gonna paddle for you. Yeah if I knew then what I know now, yada yada yada. I always had the best intentions and now I'm stuck with raising my son by myself and seeing my daughter twice a month. I had the dream, 2500 sq ft house in the burbs, two car garage, wife, kids, career, ect.....as quickly as it came....poof!!! Ten years later and I'm here passing the time to keep sane. But don't let that discourage you from marriage. A good one is still what I want. |
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Gold Member Username: LklivesPost Number: 9294 Registered: Jan-06 | U got to roll with the punches...I loved raising my 2 sons by myself, enjoyed them all the time...teaching and coaching sports and hanging together and being a dad...and no BS from a woman..and 4 out of 5 marriages fail, and its just a piece a paper that will cost U in spades both fiancially and mentally... I say why put your hand in the fire a 2nd time..go out and enjoy life without the need for commitments from people that bleed monthly! BTW...my ex was the first woman in the US to be extradicted as a "deadbeat" mom...and has remarried 5 times since me...screw that, like I said before, no need for marriage.. |
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Gold Member Username: WingmanaliveA pic is worth 1000 posts!! Post Number: 6211 Registered: Jun-06 | D@mn I forget who said "I don't trust anything that bleeds for a week and doesn't die!". A classic. Hey I understand LK. Time to enjoy the static free life. But at least.........   |
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Gold Member Username: LklivesPost Number: 9295 Registered: Jan-06 | LOL...but its cheaper to tip the kid at the packie/store than to have a wife for hauling the beer!...like I said wives are ONLY good for "giving birth", then they "depreciate" quickly...LOL |
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Gold Member Username: WingmanaliveA pic is worth 1000 posts!! Post Number: 6218 Registered: Jun-06 | I never thought of a wife as a used car before. LOL!!! Thank god Jen isn't watching. She'd have both our azzes! |