I got a Harmony 659 about a month ago. You connect it to the computer and it downloads all needed info to work your entire system. All you need to do(your wife will love this)- is push one of four buttons: Watch TV, watch a video, Listen to Music or other. You can(again from the internet) customize to any level you want. No wierd remote to remote mating rituals or complicated button gymnastics. Take a look at: Harmonyremote.com